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「毒親との絶縁」はハラームですか？
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いいえ、イスラム教では「毒親との絶縁」は見解が分かれるとされています。
IsItASin · 最終更新: 2026-08-15
いいえ、イスラム教では「毒親との絶縁」は見解が分かれるとされています。 Quran 17:23-24 — 'Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and to parents, good treatment... say not to them uff, and do not repel them, but speak to them a noble word.'
イスラム教が「毒親との絶縁」について教えること
The Study Quran
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イスラム教が「毒親との絶縁」について教えること
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Islam's parent-ethics is built in layers that map this question precisely. The base layer is unmatched: 'your Lord has decreed... to parents, good treatment' — the Quran's prohibition reaches even the interjection uff (17:23-24), and Paradise is said to lie at the feet of mothers. But the same revelation installs the ceiling: parents who strive to make a believer commit shirk 'are not obeyed' — the believer accompanies them 'in this world with kindness' (31:15), a phrase scholars unpack as: keep the relationship, lose the authority. From this architecture, mainstream scholars (the majority position across Sunni schools and modern fatwa bodies) permit limiting contact with parents whose presence causes serious harm — physical violence, sustained psychological destruction, sabotage of faith and family — while insisting the inner ledger stays clean: no cursing, continued dua, basic material care as one is able. The hadith against severing kinship (Bukhari 5984) presses constantly the other direction, which is why Muslim counselors frame no-contact as a wound, not a win: reduce contact before severing it, maintain the minimal kind thread where safely possible, and revisit the decision with an imam or counselor as circumstances change.
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- Quran 17:23-24 — 'Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and to parents, good treatment... say not to them uff, and do not repel them, but speak to them a noble word.'
- Quran 31:15 — 'But if they strive to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them, but accompany them in this world with kindness.'
- Sahih al-Bukhari 5984 — 'The one who severs the ties of kinship will not enter Paradise.'
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以下の詳細な分析は英語で提供されています。
- Get professional support before, not after, the decision — a counselor who understands family trauma and your tradition.
- Distinguish 'no-contact' from 'no-honor': care, prayer, and public dignity can continue from any distance.
- Muslim: Remember Quran 31:15's balance — never obey sin, keep kindness where safely possible; consult an imam for the hard calls.
- All: Revisit the arrangement yearly — the goal of distance, where it is needed, is healing, not permanence.
Book of Repentance (Sahih Muslim)
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said Allah rejoices more when you return than a man who finds water in the desert. Islamic tradition holds that tawbah is always accepted for those who sincerely seek it.
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以下の詳細な分析は英語で提供されています。
Is it ever okay to fully cut off a parent?
Yes, in cases of ongoing serious abuse — the traditions sanction protection when contact produces real harm; all three treat it as tragedy, not liberation, and expect honor to continue in other forms.
Yes, in cases of ongoing serious abuse — the traditions sanction protection when contact produces real harm; all three treat it as tragedy, not liberation, and expect honor to continue in other forms. Islam permits limiting harmful contact while keeping kindness where possible.
What if my parents are just difficult, not abusive?
Then the traditions push hard toward patience and managed contact rather than estrangement; distance might be scheduled; severance is not sanctioned.
Then the traditions push hard toward patience and managed contact rather than estrangement; distance might be scheduled; severance is not sanctioned. Islam's uff-prohibition trains patience precisely for imperfect parents.
How do I honor a parent I've gone no-contact with?
In the forms that remain available: ensure they're not in want if you can, never shame them publicly, pray for them, and speak truly of the good that was real; honor is a ledger of respect, not a visitation schedule.
In the forms that remain available: ensure they're not in want if you can, never shame them publicly, pray for them, and speak truly of the good that was real; honor is a ledger of respect, not a visitation schedule. Islam keeps dua and kindness-at-distance.
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