Processar um membro da família: é pecado?

Paul's reaction to family lawsuits is the most quoted text on the subject, and it is scathing. The Corinthians were dragging each other before Roman magistrates, and Paul calls it 'already a defeat' — the lawsuit's existence proves the Gospel's failure in that relationship — and then escalates: 'Why not rather be wronged?' (1 Corinthians 6:7). The tradition has always read this as prioritization, not anarchism: Paul assumes the church could judge its own internal disputes (he tells them to appoint the 'least esteemed' rather than pagan courts), and later Christian legal systems built on exactly that — ecclesial courts, mediation, arbitration before the litigation. Jesus' own counsel runs the same direction: settle with your accuser 'on the way' (Matthew 5:25), and in the conflict chapter, the private-then-witnesses process (Matthew 18:15-17) — courts are the end of the path, not the beginning. The exceptions Christian ethicists recognize are real: fraud, unpaid debts that harm your children, estates being looted, abuse requiring protection — where a family member has made peace impossible, the civil forum is legitimate. The measuring line most pastors use: have you genuinely tried mediation, and would you be at peace with the lawsuit being read aloud at the funeral?